New infield street kiss close by Sasha :)

[Rob]

Sasha has recently released this 15 minute video of a street kiss close he did in Budapest. He seems to of dialled down his energy quite a bit which I think makes a huge difference.

Enjoy

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y8omK5D18j0

[MMH]

Just got an e-mail about that. About to sit down and give it a watch now. Should be interesting.

[Lummers]

Really inspiring video. He is right about the energy, sometimes it just seems to be there.
Two people really can make a connection.

[Lux Lisbon]

Holy St. Francis, that was sooo beautiful it nearly made me cry.

A masterclass.

Well done, my friend.

[TantraMagnet]

Heres my observations

His energy is definitely more chill than his usual over the top performer like self. I think its an improvement and more natural.

She blows him of by saying "Ok, I'll keep walking, my friends are waiting for me." Sasha completely ignores her statement and plows forward. Excellent example of how perseverance is key!

He compliments her on her energy then nearly insults her and almost blows himself out by telling her "Maybe you're drunk." Sasha bro, that was not a good example of social calibration!

The photos of him and her on the day2 were very touching and heart warming. Outside of almost blowing himself out, a very inspirational video and why we are all in this beautiful game aka the dance of life!

[Skents]

The thing I love about Sasha is that you can see him repeatedly push the interaction to the very edge of being blown out (you're drunk, Nazi salute etc) and then still bring it back. Awesome to watch working.

[TantraMagnet]

Also he opens with

"Hi, don't be scared, I'm not crazy."

She responds with "What do you want from me?"

Although his intent is humor, his opener potentially creeps her out. She does think he is crazy which works in his favor when he tells her he is a professional comedian.

Fortunately, Sasha has the experience to recover from the awkward situations he creates for himself.

Plus his opener does not provide sufficient information to initiate the interaction.

I feel Andy and Yad have provided us with an excellent framework for opening on the street.

I think Sasha could have done better by opening with something like

Hi, I have something special to tell you - Attention Capture

I saw you from over there (pointing back there) - Prehistory Grounding

And I noticed your beautiful aura - Observational Statement

Gives you a very charming presence! - Direct Compliment

She even asks him for the prehistory by asking him where he saw her from.

Still this video is like a romantic movie moment which is what I think we all want to achieve.

[buzzkill]

very nice video..

I wonder if he closed the deal

[Lux Lisbon]

I'm glad I wore my corset, for fears my side would split.

So hilarious this guy on here is nitpicking Sasha's approach.

It reminds me of those guys on football phone-ins on the radio who call in to bitch about the manager even though their side went down to ten men, yet still won 3-0 away at the team who is top of the league.

Let's look at the facts: in the dark, on the street, in a foreign country, dressed in a 'Back To The Future' T-shirt, this guy chased down a beautiful young girl seven years his junior.

He opened her, overcame her apprehensions and fears, and within fifteen minutes had given her a moment she will be able to treasure and to tell her grandchildren about in half a century's time.

Not only that, in that short space of time, his charm and charisma and powers of persuasion managed to get her out to meet him again for what seemed like a fun and super-romantic date.

Do I think he closed her? Yes, probably - and I think that was the easy part.

Now, I don't know about you, but pick-up to me is all about: Getting The Job Done.

It's not a ballet, it's not a beautiful poem, and there will always be bumps in the road. If you get the job done, even if you have to win ugly, then the pick-up has been successful - whether it was messy or could even be improved upon is actually irrelevant.

If you approach and you're George Clooney-smooth, you open in text book fashion, you follow all the golden rules of the Jedi-Zen-Pick-Up Masters, and your approach and interaction is so perfect it should be nominated for The Turner Prize and you don't get the pussy then, guess what? You fail and you go home to your palm and a jar of Vaseline.  (Cue: sad trombone music)

Sasha got the job done. Beautifully.

End of discussion.

[spinaroonie]

Yet another day game video of an American/Canadian/British/Aussie guy gaming a pleasant, feminine Eastern European girl with middling English.

Why are there few legitimate day game videos of guys approaching Anglo girls? In the US/Canada/Britain?

This is why:

Here's the mindset of a man doing direct day game: "I'm ballsy. I'm a man. I'm going to make my intentions known. She'll get wet for me cuz I'm so ALPHA."

Here's what the woman in Anglosphere is thinking: "Eww... creep. Go away."

Direct day game doesn't work for average-looking guys in Anglo countries. This is especially true in the feminized Anglosphere where strange men are assumed to be creeps and potential rapists.

A balls-out direct opener works best when it's done by an Anglo man on non-feminist women (Eastern Europeans, foreign-born Asians) who will be awed by his higher socioeconomic status, and who still respect masculinity.

When direct day game PUA Krauser (krauserpua.com) ran his direct style of street game in London he got shut down hard by the local English girls. When he switched his targets to Eastern European girls he had much more success - coincidence?

[Skents]

First, Spinaroonie, watch your tone. This is meant to be a nurturing environment for everyone and your blatant negativity is not helping anyone.

Secondly, I would like to challenge your point there a little (maybe because I'm so alpha?)  Daygame works on pretty much anyone, regardless of colour, creed, religion or port of origin. BUT you are quite right in saying that certain styles of game will effect people from different backgrounds in different ways. Personally, my first ever Daygame success was with a lovely girl from America's deep south (yeehaw etc) and my last long term relationship, which started with a direct approach and lasted a year, was with a lovely girl who originated from the distant city of ...well... Bath.

[MMH]

Yet another day game video of an American/Canadian/British/Aussie guy gaming a pleasant, feminine Eastern European girl with middling English.

Why are there few legitimate day game videos of guys approaching Anglo girls? In the US/Canada/Britain?

This is why:

Here's the mindset of a man doing direct day game: "I'm ballsy. I'm a man. I'm going to make my intentions known. She'll get wet for me cuz I'm so ALPHA."

Here's what the woman in Anglosphere is thinking: "Eww... creep. Go away."

Direct day game doesn't work for average-looking guys in Anglo countries. This is especially true in the feminized Anglosphere where strange men are assumed to be creeps and potential rapists.

A balls-out direct opener works best when it's done by an Anglo man on non-feminist women (Eastern Europeans, foreign-born Asians) who will be awed by his higher socioeconomic status, and who still respect masculinity.

When direct day game PUA Krauser (krauserpua.com) ran his direct style of street game in London he got shut down hard by the local English girls. When he switched his targets to Eastern European girls he had much more success - coincidence?

One of my best approaches was super direct and was successful. So unless you've tried it, try not to slag it off too much...









...she was British btw.

[spinaroonie]

I know this Sasha cat's from Toronto.

If he ran this approach up in Toronto he'd get shut down. Hard. Guaranteed. The local girls would see through the facade, see that he's a complete dork and walk away.


If you're in Europe as an Anglo, you're exotic. The Hungarian girl was awed by his exotic foreignness. A guy she can practice her English with. Nothing more.

[BeStrong]

Yet another day game video of an American/Canadian/British/Aussie guy gaming a pleasant, feminine Eastern European girl with middling English.

Why are there few legitimate day game videos of guys approaching Anglo girls? In the US/Canada/Britain?

This is why:

Here's the mindset of a man doing direct day game: "I'm ballsy. I'm a man. I'm going to make my intentions known. She'll get wet for me cuz I'm so ALPHA."

Here's what the woman in Anglosphere is thinking: "Eww... creep. Go away."

Direct day game doesn't work for average-looking guys in Anglo countries. This is especially true in the feminized Anglosphere where strange men are assumed to be creeps and potential rapists.

A balls-out direct opener works best when it's done by an Anglo man on non-feminist women (Eastern Europeans, foreign-born Asians) who will be awed by his higher socioeconomic status, and who still respect masculinity.

When direct day game PUA Krauser (krauserpua.com) ran his direct style of street game in London he got shut down hard by the local English girls. When he switched his targets to Eastern European girls he had much more success - coincidence?

I agree with you that most guys are gaming non-local girls. I'm from Slovakia and so far I've only seen UK/London guys hitting on
a) foreing chicks - they moved into uk and are new in town/working seasonal job/studying english..
b) local girls in other countries where their origin makes them 'exotic'

I've wrote about it here http://daygame.com/cafe/index.php/topic,944