I am new to Daygame, bought the DayGameBluePrint and it is awesome. I have been practicing and practicing. I do have on problem (at least right now) that needs so working.
I have gotten very smooth at having 10 min+ conversations with girls who were working at booths in the mall. They would open to me asking to buy something and from there I turned the conversation around and even found out some of their inner dreams and ambitions. I felt very smooth, made them laugh, challenged them, got a good conversation etc. My buddy next to me kept trying to ask these girls questions, and they basically ignored him out of the convo. I made some great assumptions and statements that had the girls talking 80% of the conversation.
Here's my problem though. When I make a Yad stop (and there were never yells or surprises. I would say I have mastered the Yad stop) BUT right after that, my mind feels like mush. I get all this information about them. This one girl said she was a dancer, mentioned she lives with her parents (not sure why) etc. etc. an I could have gone down sooo many different avenues but I kept trying to assumption stack and I think that's where it went wrong. As the convo started to dwindle (and quick) I couldn't think of any more assumptions.
I could have gone a million ways down the dancer thing, down her working, down her college etc etc. but after we would talk for like 2 sentences back and forth, I would try to make more assumptions.
Maybe I just answered my own question, but when I was smooth with the girls working, I was relaxed and just felt on my game 100%. But after a Yad stop, I felt like I was lost for words.
I even told her after like 5 minutes "I've actually never approached anyone so i'm not sure what to say" and she was also really nervous bc she said she had never had this happen to her, BUT obviously I should not expect her to lead if I am just standing there.
Anyways just curious to know what you guys think. The adrenaline rush as I run up and stop these girls is crazy, maybe that's knocking me out of focus? But then right after I finished the convo with this girl, I felt like 150% BUT I still had the same issues (maybe a bit less terrible) when I made another approach.