On the verge of trying "direct" but how did you make it happen?

[handy andy]

mate, you're overthinking this whole thing - trying to work out every possible eventuality is both pointless and detremental to being 'in the moment' (something itself which is far more valuable than any tip or technique you will find on a forum).

just do it and sod the consequences. really. that's all there is to it. even if it doesnt work out great, you'll have learnt far more in that 2 mins than you will in a month reading posts online. you've been expending all this mental effort on shit that doenst require it. sorry for the tough love, but just do it already.

[Lux Lisbon]

*applause*

Well, said, and correct.

If you were learning how to boil an egg, would you post on a forum for days on end to ask. Or would you just pop it in a pan of water and experiment until you were happy with the result?

You're a man. You've had this desire for women hardwired into you. The universe wants you to fuck and reproduce, that's why God made sex so pleasurable and babies so adorable.

The universe wants women to fuck too, and give birth to beautiful kiddies; that's why God gave them a clitoris - an organ which has no biological use except for unbelievable, body-shaking, eye-rolling pleasure.

However, this desire has been buried and trampled down by your desire to fit in to society, and not appear weird, not to get in to fights, not to seem like a creep, wanting girls to like you - to think you're nice, to think you're a gentleman, so that when you die you have two hundred people at your funeral all vouching for your good reputation.

Fuck that! You're a beast of the field, you're a sweaty-toothed, sex-crazed mad man, who wants to drag every willing woman, young or old, married or single, down the nearest alley.

But, the ironic thing, you see, is that they WANT you to approach. They've been waiting for a man like you. They want to be dominated and lead. They want fun and adventure, They're bored shitless, so give those fluffy little bunnies what they want.

Trust your intuition, Luke. You know what to do.